Bothering with strange feeling

I am a professional in software industry since last four years and doing well in other's (not me!) perspective. Although I do my job with great enthusiasm and dedication and tried to finish the job with almost no issues, but sometimes, I could not achieve the stage of perfect ness as I have expected from myself. But for that, I believe that is fine too, as it also helps in some form of improvement.

But I realize one issue within me during four years span of my experience. This issue always comes after three or four months of joining new projects. Whenever I join new project, I tries my best to keep my learning curve high, so that I can cover all information in fewer time than anyone else. During learning curve, I felt so much excited that I can't explain here in words.

But as soon as I learned in good extent about the project and felt comfortable working with project, I felt bored with the project just after working for one or more month in that project with my full capacity. It seems to me that there is nothing new to do in the project. Sometimes even situation got so worse that I don’t feel to do any work that is related to the project for few continuous days, and that situation makes the matter worse. Even sometimes that raised the concern within myself that if I am heading in right direction for my future.

At that time I extremely felt to search something new in technology or anything that I have not done earlier. In this whole process, I evaluate myself very badly and then felt frustrated. This feeling continues until I do something new in any forms, weather it was related with software industry or anything else. For example sometimes finding new website that help others for some troubleshooting provide me satisfaction or finding a new News website in Hindi, even learning cooking was also one possible solution for me to come out of that situation.:)

I am not aware if any one else has also felt the same with oneself. As I never heard other people to say like this. So I am trying myself to overcome this issue.

Understand the difficulties attached with simple task

Sometime you don’t realize that, some things that might be so obvious to you may be too hard for other. For Example e-Mail, it seems so easy for us that we don’t think that it might be hard for other. If you are also in the same state, think again!

My father has started to send me e-mails few months back. For me sending email is just like doing daily activities. Believe me! Being in software industry, this happens to everyone I can bet.

Today when I saw the mail from my father, I don’t know how I realized that sending mail to him be quite difficult. As he has to learn everything from scratch, that includes, starting Windows, opening the internet explorer window, open the mail web site (he use yahoo), login into the e-mail account; compose the mail, writing the e-mail address and sending it through clicking send button. But more than that, believing that e-mail has actually been sent. (Just try to remember when you send your first mail).

I think he had done the great job and he learned so quickly, even I can’t think of it, when I would be of that age. I am proud on my Father.

US spoils people by not using them at full capacity

Few days back, there was a news in BBC Hindi Service that, since last four years 25 thousand indian people have returned back to INDIA from US in search for better work and career growth. Although In India every one believe of cutting edge technology work and good work is not being outsourced from US. But it seems that reality is very much different what we think when we are in INDIA.

Actually most people returned back as here they are not getting good growth in their career while working in US. Most of the people (Indian) whom i met (having good 8+ yr exp) here are doing the job that even a person of 4 yr experience can do that pretty easily.

So One can guess that main issue is career growth, and work quality only. People are compell to do the simple job as they are not having any option unless they don't want to return back to India.

So In other terms people who got experience from here actually are of no use in technical field in INDIA. So most of them has joined as Manager in INDIA. And because they are used to do the simple job, they are not able to generate any work or setup business in INDIA. They are having no guts (most of them not all). And the reason for that is, life is too easy here, person don;t need to do big effort to make his life better. And that makes the person dull and lazy.

Doesn;t it seems that US spoils the (Indian) people by not using them at full capacity. :)

Why marriages in Hindu Religion are ever lasting?

This whole weekend I passed my time in reading News Paper on net and watching TV. But the news, I thought this whole weekend is related to meeting of All India Muslim Personal Law Board Meeting. This meeting has been finished on Sunday with some small changes in their tradition to cope with the new environment.

One of the changes is related with getting divorce. Now there would be no divorce merely speaking “Talak” three times. Person has to go to Quazi for that. This is a good change for the stable marriage life among Muslims. Now both the member has to come out in front of Mosque and has to appeal for divorce to Quazi. And that’s the person’s nature that one doesn’t want one’s personal life to become public.

Now I am not in wonder why marriages in Hindu religion are so everlasting, because there is no option provided in the religion to get separate. One might be disagree with me by saying that divorce can be achieved through the court order. But one thing should be noted that court can only issue divorce when marriage has been happened through court itself.
But now I wonder why there is no option of getting divorce in Hindu religion? As per Hindu religion person can perform one or more marriages (although not possible as per government laws) during his life time. So there must be some provision for getting separation too. I will try to find out through some religious books. :)