Today when i was coming to office due to training purpose. I was following the usual way from which i normally come to office. At one red light before Noida Sector 58, I saw all the vehicle was stopped and patiently waiting for the red light. I also stopped at that red light and wait it for to get green.
Few pedestrian was passing by then through zebra crossing. One of them made a comment on us by saying "WOW!! WHAT A WONDER HAPPENED TODAY". I could not resist on my smile. As i know whom he was pointing the comment.
Usually none of vehicle stops at that red light but to surprise, today everyone was patiently waiting at that point. Hence he made comment. Also compel to think all of vehicle owners what other people (who don;t travel through personal vehicle) think about them.
Saturday, April 21, 2007
Monday, April 16, 2007
Is Showing Patience makes other impatient and frustrated?
Since last 6 months, I am observing change of reaction towards myself by few near and dear ones. What i really observe is quite strange to me and it made me think again about my attitude towards others.
There were series of things i observed in form of reaction, weather it is a normal discussion about some materialistic things or someone else behaviour. Since last few six months i myself has gone through various phases of changes (but emerged successfully) hence got chance to observe other people reaction towards me. The strange thing was, whenever i am trying to keep my cool, that boils somebody else not on me but on the situation on which i am keeping patience.
For example, We (Me and my few friends) were going to attend one friend's marriage in Bijnor by my car. In between reaching to Merut, we stopped for a while for tea-break. What really has happened was, i forgot to take the keys out from the Car and locked it (with all the mirrors closed tightly). Just after locking the car, i realize my mistake, but i can't do anything. I told my friends, initially everyone reaction was OK, but soon when we tried to find the solution but could not get it due to being charged heavily by one mechanic available nearby. Everybody else was loosing his patience. I was also nervous but not trying to show others, I think that made everybody else furious. They are not furious on me, but on situation we get caught. Anyway after few more minute, we were out of that situation and reach to friend's place on time.::)
That was just a single example, but there are more from which i found that not showing nervousness by myself makes other furious.
I don;t know weather i am at right side or they are on right side, but i think i also need to learn few fake reaction i should show depends upon need.
There were series of things i observed in form of reaction, weather it is a normal discussion about some materialistic things or someone else behaviour. Since last few six months i myself has gone through various phases of changes (but emerged successfully) hence got chance to observe other people reaction towards me. The strange thing was, whenever i am trying to keep my cool, that boils somebody else not on me but on the situation on which i am keeping patience.
For example, We (Me and my few friends) were going to attend one friend's marriage in Bijnor by my car. In between reaching to Merut, we stopped for a while for tea-break. What really has happened was, i forgot to take the keys out from the Car and locked it (with all the mirrors closed tightly). Just after locking the car, i realize my mistake, but i can't do anything. I told my friends, initially everyone reaction was OK, but soon when we tried to find the solution but could not get it due to being charged heavily by one mechanic available nearby. Everybody else was loosing his patience. I was also nervous but not trying to show others, I think that made everybody else furious. They are not furious on me, but on situation we get caught. Anyway after few more minute, we were out of that situation and reach to friend's place on time.::)
That was just a single example, but there are more from which i found that not showing nervousness by myself makes other furious.
I don;t know weather i am at right side or they are on right side, but i think i also need to learn few fake reaction i should show depends upon need.
Wednesday, January 03, 2007
Net Sickness
How can one define the Internet sickness? Spending lot of time on surfing, reading article & writing responses to them? Or not feeling good if could not able to do such things on the Internet.
But i am pretty much sure about the second part. As sometimes i feel that i should write few good article on the net but due to lack of peace full time, i am not able to do so since long time back. Sometime i feel frustrated due to this. As i realise this change of behaviour in myself since last few months, also i found that if i am able to do write even very simple thing for example on my Blogger even i felt a lot happier from inside. Feel of doing creativity, feel of doing something new gives me thrill after i wrote something.
I think time has been arrived for thinking something very seriously about this sickness.
But i am pretty much sure about the second part. As sometimes i feel that i should write few good article on the net but due to lack of peace full time, i am not able to do so since long time back. Sometime i feel frustrated due to this. As i realise this change of behaviour in myself since last few months, also i found that if i am able to do write even very simple thing for example on my Blogger even i felt a lot happier from inside. Feel of doing creativity, feel of doing something new gives me thrill after i wrote something.
I think time has been arrived for thinking something very seriously about this sickness.
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